和女朋友相恋四年，因彩礼问题出现分歧，我该放弃这段...
<p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.544px; color: rgb(64, 118, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.544px; color: rgb(64, 118, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><font size="4" style="" face="微软雅黑">@安</font></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; letter-spacing: 0.544px; border-width: 0px; border-style: none; border-color: initial; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><font size="4" face="微软雅黑"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(19, 20, 22); letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">我和女友是在相亲平台上认识的，两个人相恋了四年，平常感情也是可以的，也到了谈婚论嫁的时候，本周去见了双方父母。女朋友妈妈明确要彩礼30万，不然不能将女儿嫁过来，但是我现在28岁，所有积蓄加起来才16万。以后还要买房子，车子，孩子上学，感觉压力很大。和女朋也商量过这个事情。女朋友拿我和他小姐妹对比，说小姐妹嫁出去对方给了彩礼60万，现在有房有车了。也明确和我说要30万彩礼，说父母抚养她到这么大不容易，没有彩礼不嫁。我不知道该不该放弃这段感情，我该怎么办？</span></font></p><section data-support="96编辑器" data-style-id="30307" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(138, 175, 148); letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; text-align: left; transform: rotateZ(0deg); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section data-support="96编辑器" data-style-id="30307" style="max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.75em; text-align: left; transform: rotateZ(0deg); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; border-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; width: 910.75px; color: rgb(19, 20, 22); letter-spacing: 1px; text-align: center; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><font size="4" face="微软雅黑"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></font></p></section></section><section style="max-width: 100%; margin-top: -15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; display: flex; justify-content: space-between; align-items: flex-end; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; margin-left: 10px; width: 3.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style=""><font size="4" face="微软雅黑">http://img.cqwuxi.com/attachment/forum/202107/21/152820gdtotp9djpr886mg.gif</font></span></section><section data-width="75%" style="max-width: 100%; margin-bottom: 5px; width: 433.333px; height: 2px; background-color: rgb(207, 228, 211); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><font size="4" face="微软雅黑"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></font></section></section><section data-width="75%" style="max-width: 100%; width: 433.333px; height: 2px; background-color: rgb(207, 228, 211); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><font size="4" face="微软雅黑"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></font></section></section></section></section><section style="max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(64, 118, 0); letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><font size="4" face="微软雅黑">导师解答：</font></span></section><section style="max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><font size="4" face="微软雅黑"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.544px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); text-indent: 2em;"></span></font></section><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; letter-spacing: 0.544px; border-width: 0px; border-style: none; border-color: initial; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><font size="4" face="微软雅黑"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(19, 20, 22); letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></font></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; letter-spacing: 0.544px; border-width: 0px; border-style: none; border-color: initial; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(19, 20, 22); letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><font size="4" face="微软雅黑">礼金问题一直在单身男生的心结，不是不给，而是给的数值是不是超出自己力所能及，30万和60万差的这30万已够多了，而你目前积蓄加起来才16万，如果这样比下去，是找对象还是卖女儿，这样是不是失去了男女相爱组建家庭的意义了？这是你要和女友考虑的问题，另外如果你不够女友的礼金标准，是去借这个钱凑30万礼金，婚后共同去还，她能接受吗？</font></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; letter-spacing: 0.544px; border-width: 0px; border-style: none; border-color: initial; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(19, 20, 22); letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><font size="4" face="微软雅黑">目前你要沟通的对象是你女友，表达自己的态度，16万-30万之间的差距不小，该如何把这个矛盾解决就OK,可以跟她讲，两个人相爱，相信以后可以想办法去努力改变，如果她真的想找个经济更好的，能出高价彩礼的，把身边朋友和小姐妹比下去，那么志不同道不合，就不用继续往下走了。</font></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; letter-spacing: 0.544px; border-width: 0px; border-style: none; border-color: initial; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><font size="4" face="微软雅黑"><span style="color: rgb(19, 20, 22); letter-spacing: 1px; text-indent: 2em;"></span></font></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; border-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; width: 910.75px; color: rgb(19, 20, 22); letter-spacing: 1px; text-align: center; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><font size="4" face="微软雅黑">平台导师：冯平</font></span></p></section></section><section style="max-width: 100%; margin-top: -15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; display: flex; justify-content: space-between; align-items: flex-end; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; margin-left: 10px; width: 3.5em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style=""><font size="4" face="微软雅黑">http://img.cqwuxi.com/attachment/forum/202107/21/152820c7xcs9nzuqfkhdna.gif</font></span></section><section data-width="75%" style="max-width: 100%; margin-bottom: 5px; width: 507.743px; height: 2px; background-color: rgb(207, 228, 211); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><font size="4" face="微软雅黑"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></font></section></section><section data-width="75%" style="max-width: 100%; width: 507.743px; height: 2px; background-color: rgb(207, 228, 211); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></section></section></section></section><section style="max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><font size="4" face="微软雅黑"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(64, 118, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;">【情感问答】</span><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">这里不仅仅只是一个情感发泄的平台。你有什么情感方面的喜怒哀乐，或者生活中难以启齿的事情，都可以说出你的情感故事。<br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></font></section><section style="max-width: 100%; margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(255, 76, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><font size="4" face="微软雅黑">那么如何参与进来呢？</font></span></section><section style="max-width: 100%; margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><font size="4" face="微软雅黑">1、大家可以回复本帖，分享交流。</font></span></section></section><p></p> 放过自己吧。 难啊，商量商量分个期 没有两全其美的办法 放弃
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