淮滨小伙解除婚约，彩礼退还成难题？
<div class="wx_rich_media_content" id="jsWxContainer"><p style='text-align: center;margin-bottom: 0em;'><br></p><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; font-size: 18px; visibility: visible;'><p style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; text-indent: 2em; visibility: visible;'>彩礼是旧时婚礼流传下来的程序，说白了就是男女婚恋中，男方给女方的聘礼或礼金。那么，婚约解除后，彩礼该不该退还？近日，淮滨县法院马集法庭法官沈小平成功调解一起婚约财产纠纷案。</p></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style='margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; 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justify-content: center; display: flex; flex-flow: row nowrap; visibility: visible;'><section style='padding: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; display: inline-block; width: auto; vertical-align: top; background-color: rgb(204, 66, 66); min-width: 10%; flex: 0 0 auto; height: auto; align-self: flex-start; visibility: visible;'><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(245, 230, 211); text-align: justify; visibility: visible;'><p style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;'><strong style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;'>案情介绍</strong></p></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style='margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; visibility: visible;'><section style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; vertical-align: middle; display: inline-block; line-height: 0; visibility: visible;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;outline: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;vertical-align: middle;width: 615px;display: initial;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;visibility: visible !important;'></span></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; font-size: 18px; visibility: visible;'><p style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; text-indent: 2em; visibility: visible;'>2021年7月份，陈某和李某经人介绍相识后并确定恋爱关系，并于8月份举行了订婚仪式，在此期间，陈某共向李某转账30000元，订婚礼10100元及其他部分礼金。2021年12月份，陈某和李某因情感问题产生矛盾，李某遂与陈某解除婚约。在解除婚约后，双方因彩礼返还问题产生纠纷，陈某便向法院提起诉讼，要求李某退还彩礼42100元。</p></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style='margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; justify-content: center; display: flex; flex-flow: row nowrap; visibility: visible;'><section style='padding: 9px 5px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; display: inline-block; width: auto; vertical-align: top; min-width: 10%; flex: 0 0 auto; height: auto; border-style: solid; border-width: 1px; border-color: rgb(205, 66, 66); align-self: flex-start; visibility: visible;'><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; justify-content: center; display: flex; flex-flow: row nowrap; visibility: visible;'><section style='padding: 6px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; display: inline-block; width: auto; vertical-align: top; min-width: 10%; flex: 0 0 auto; height: auto; background-color: rgb(205, 66, 66); align-self: flex-start; visibility: visible;'><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style='margin-top: -10px; margin-bottom: -10px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; justify-content: center; display: flex; flex-flow: row nowrap; visibility: visible;'><section style='padding: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; display: inline-block; width: auto; vertical-align: top; background-color: rgb(204, 66, 66); min-width: 10%; flex: 0 0 auto; height: auto; align-self: flex-start; visibility: visible;'><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(245, 230, 211); text-align: justify; visibility: visible;'><p style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;'><strong style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;'>调解过程</strong><span style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-align: center; background-color: rgb(225, 244, 254); color: rgb(51, 51, 51); visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;'></span></p></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; font-size: 18px; visibility: visible;'><p style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; text-indent: 2em; visibility: visible;'>为了彻底化解矛盾，8月31日下午，沈小平和“退休老村长”人民调解员刘新建邀请原、被告在马集法庭“家事调解室”进行面对面调解，经过耐心倾听，沟通和释法明义，双方情绪逐渐平息。在得知被告有一些个人物品在原告方处后，沈小平又及时联系车辆将其物品拉到法庭现场交接。最终在法庭的调解下，被告当场将协商后的彩礼款通过微信返还给原告，原告也将被告的个人物品予以退还，并向法庭申请撤诉，该案得以圆满解决。</p></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style='margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; 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font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; justify-content: center; display: flex; flex-flow: row nowrap; visibility: visible;'><section style='padding: 9px 5px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; display: inline-block; width: auto; vertical-align: top; min-width: 10%; flex: 0 0 auto; height: auto; border-style: solid; border-width: 1px; border-color: rgb(205, 66, 66); align-self: flex-start; visibility: visible;'><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; justify-content: center; display: flex; flex-flow: row nowrap; visibility: visible;'><section style='padding: 6px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; display: inline-block; width: auto; vertical-align: top; min-width: 10%; flex: 0 0 auto; height: auto; background-color: rgb(205, 66, 66); align-self: flex-start; visibility: visible;'><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style='margin-top: -10px; margin-bottom: -10px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; justify-content: center; display: flex; flex-flow: row nowrap; visibility: visible;'><section style='padding: 8px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; display: inline-block; width: auto; vertical-align: top; background-color: rgb(204, 66, 66); min-width: 10%; flex: 0 0 auto; height: auto; align-self: flex-start; visibility: visible;'><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(245, 230, 211); text-align: justify; visibility: visible;'><p style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;'><strong style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; visibility: visible;'>以案说法</strong></p></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section powered-by="xiumi.us" style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; font-size: 18px; visibility: visible;'><p style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; text-indent: 2em; visibility: visible;'>生活中常见因彩礼返还而产生纠纷，给付彩礼的一方，在双方解除婚约或在离婚时请求返还彩礼，那么彩礼纠纷一般如何处理呢？</p><p style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; text-indent: 2em;'><strong style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>一、返还彩礼的条件</strong></p><p style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; text-indent: 2em;'>(一)男女双方未办理结婚登记手续。</p><p style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; text-indent: 2em;'>(二)男女双方办理结婚登记手续但确未共同生活，可以在离婚诉讼中要求返还彩礼。</p><p style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; text-indent: 2em;'>(三)婚前给付并导致给付人生活困难的，也可以在离婚诉讼中要求返还彩礼。<span style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-indent: 2em; box-sizing: border-box !important;'></span></p><p style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; text-indent: 2em;'><strong style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>二、返还彩礼的标准</strong></p><p style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; text-indent: 2em;'>(一)因给付彩礼一方的原因导致婚约解除，返还彩礼的数额可根据其过错程度、双方的经济状况等因素，酌情减少。</p><p style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; text-indent: 2em;'>(二)如果未婚男女双方确已共同生活但最终未能办理结婚登记手续，给付彩礼方请求返还彩礼，一般根据双方共同生活的时间、彩礼数额并结合当地风俗习惯等因素，确定是否返还及具体返还的数额。</p><p style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; text-indent: 2em;'><strong style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;'>三、返还彩礼需要的证据</strong></p><p style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; text-indent: 2em;'>(一)证明男女双方当时正处于谈婚论嫁的状态</p><p style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; text-indent: 2em;'>可通过双方的短信、微信等通讯工具的聊天记录，或者举行过订婚仪式、拍婚纱照等行为反映出来，表明双方有谈婚论嫁的意向，注意，谈婚论嫁和谈情说爱是有区别的，单纯的情话表白也是不能反映双方谈婚论嫁状态。</p><p style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; text-indent: 2em;'>(二)证明给付了财产的证据</p><p style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; text-indent: 2em;'>如果是通过银行转账方式支付的礼金那么就要提供银行转账明细；若是购买房屋或者车辆可以提供自己的出资证明，因为按照我们的日常生活经验，将大额财产登记在他人名下一般都是用来当彩礼。</p><p style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; text-indent: 2em;'>(三)证明给付彩礼是当地的风俗</p><p style='outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; text-indent: 2em;'>当地的风俗习惯可以听取当地媒婆、村长、村委会主任等人的意见，必要时可作为证人出庭作证。</p></section></div><p></p>
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